Golf buddies for your first few rounds

Choose the person, not the lowest handicap

A beginner-friendly partner is someone who knows you’re learning and is happy with the round you’ve agreed. Another beginner might share your questions; an experienced golfer might enjoy a relaxed game. Ask about expectations rather than assuming ability tells you everything.

Be clear if you’re still learning how to get around the course. You don’t need to apologise for it. Saying “I’ve had a few lessons and would like a relaxed nine” gives someone a much better picture than pretending you play more often.

Start with a manageable round

Consider nine holes, a shorter course or a practice session together before committing to a full eighteen. A smaller first plan gives you time to learn whether you enjoy playing together without making the day feel like a test.

Check with the course before booking. Visitor access, handicap requirements, clothing and equipment policies differ. Explain that you’re new and ask which times or sessions they suggest for a first visit.

Ask three questions before you meet

• What kind of round are we having? Agree whether you’ll keep score, practise or simply get comfortable playing.
• What should I bring? Confirm your equipment, suitable clothing and any hire arrangements with the course.
• Where do we start? Pick a clear meeting point and allow time to check in before the tee time.

You can also ask whether your partner is happy to answer questions. Some people enjoy giving pointers; others prefer to leave coaching to your instructor. A little clarity avoids an afternoon of unwanted advice.

Keep company and confidence at the centre

It’s easy to worry about every shot when you’re meeting someone new. Focus on being ready for your turn, paying attention to the people around you and following the course’s guidance. If you’re unsure what to do, ask your playing partner or a member of staff.

A good first round doesn’t have to produce a good score. Feeling comfortable enough to come back is a worthwhile result. Afterwards, talk about what worked: perhaps a shorter round, a different time or another practice session would suit you both.

Tell us what your game looks like

On the BogeyBuddy waitlist, choose “Fresh to the fairway” and add your town or city. You can also tell us when you’re usually free. We’re collecting interest for a social golf app that welcomes different abilities; matching and playing features are still in development.

For more places to look today, see how to find local golf partners. Once you have a few people interested, our fourball planning guide can help you agree the details.